I am a kind of person who is taken for granted every time for being too nice.
The problem with me is that I cant refuse people as it makes me more upset and of course they don't consider the possibilities of me saying "no" (if you too can relate, then Hi5 mate). At times you feel that you have to push yourself to people or else no one will even bother to tell you hi. And yup, you end up making unworthy people a priority of you life. Having a ton of friends is a BIG problem as you wont be able to find your real true friend. These "too nice" people are often treated as options. And yes of course, our existence is acknowledged only when people needs help because we are always available. Not to forget that we often blame ourselves when things go wrong because we are "too nice" to blame others.
But sometimes you gotta be tough.You gotta tell people your worth. You gotta tell people that you will care only if they care about you. Sometime they will have to agree with you, instead you agreeing to them. Remember that you don't always have to be too nice. Being nice is enough but don't let people take you for granted always. You don't have to live up to people's expectations always.
The problem with me is that I cant refuse people as it makes me more upset and of course they don't consider the possibilities of me saying "no" (if you too can relate, then Hi5 mate). At times you feel that you have to push yourself to people or else no one will even bother to tell you hi. And yup, you end up making unworthy people a priority of you life. Having a ton of friends is a BIG problem as you wont be able to find your real true friend. These "too nice" people are often treated as options. And yes of course, our existence is acknowledged only when people needs help because we are always available. Not to forget that we often blame ourselves when things go wrong because we are "too nice" to blame others.
But sometimes you gotta be tough.You gotta tell people your worth. You gotta tell people that you will care only if they care about you. Sometime they will have to agree with you, instead you agreeing to them. Remember that you don't always have to be too nice. Being nice is enough but don't let people take you for granted always. You don't have to live up to people's expectations always.
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